Many products carry a warning label. Oftentimes they seem rather ridiculous. Do we need to be warned by our bottle of sleeping pills that using the product "may cause drowsiness?" If you really need to be warned to not hold the wrong end of a chainsaw, maybe you should leave your pruning chores to a professional. I must confess that I'm actually a bit insulted when I read the label telling me that I should not iron my clothes while wearing them.
It would be interesting to research the history of litigation to discover the origin of each of these warnings. That said, sometimes it is important to read the fine print before committing to or agreeing to a new course of action.
I'm pretty sure that Jesus is not concerned about potential lawsuits. Nonetheless, It seems as if he is in full disclosure mode in this week's gospel:
· Whoever comes to me and does not hate father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters, yes, and even life itself, cannot be my disciple.
· Whoever does not carry the cross and follow me cannot be my disciple.
· None of you can become my disciple if you do not give up all your possessions. Luke 14:25-33
Does Jesus really want you to hate your family? Hating anything seems rather contrary to Jesus messages of grace and love. He's obviously using hyperbole here, and I think we get his point. Sometimes it is the things we value the most limit the extent to which we can fully experience the new life he has come to offer. Freedom comes when we trust God enough to give up those limits we set for ourselves.
And it is not by accident that he points to family first.
Even more so than now, in the ancient world your status and identity came mainly from your family ties. So when Jesus invites his followers to consider giving up family identity as their primary sense of self, he is really speaking a challenging word.
Perhaps even more relevant and challenging to us is his word about possessions. One might rephrase Jesus to say: Do you own your stuff or does your stuff own you? And this goes far beyond simply enjoying our creature comforts. This goes right to the center of how we define ourselves. How much of our identity is wrapped up with what we own? Does that way of defining ourselves bring freedom or a burden?
Yes, Jesus words perhaps should come with a warning label. Jesus dares to challenge some key ways we define ourselves in this world; by our people and our stuff. Maybe, he even challenges the fact that we try to define ourselves at all.
Instead of trying to define ourselves, perhaps we should let God do that. Wouldn't that be the greatest freedom of all. And the good news, God has already done that, right there on the cross.
As it says in Ephesians 2:10: "For we are what he has made us, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand to be our way of life."
In Christ, freedom comes from letting go. Freedom comes from no longer being defined by the limits and boundaries we set for ourselves (or society imposes upon us). In Christ we are free people. Free to choose life, free to choose faithfulness, free to give and serve, and free to open our arms wide and receive the free grace of God.