Matthew 12:46-50 While Jesus was still talking to the crowd, his mother and brothers stood outside, wanting to speak to him. Someone told him, “Your mother and brothers are standing outside, wanting to speak to you.”
He replied to him, “Who is my mother, and who are my brothers?” Pointing to his disciples, he said, “Here are my mother and my brothers. For whoever does the will of my Father in heaven is my brother and sister and mother.”
From Sister Colleen Gibson
When I am talking to elementary students about religious vocations, I often ask if anyone has a sister. Children’s hands shoot up as they call out how many sisters they have. I marvel at the students’ eagerness to share before asking them how many sisters I have. Their guesses are reasonable - one, two, maybe three or four.
Shaking my head, I reveal that I have hundreds of sisters. A stunned silence falls over the room as the children try to understand what I have said.
I imagine the same pause in today’s Gospel as Jesus, with his relatives right outside, declares that whoever does God’s will is his “brother, sister, and mother.”
Jesus has widened the circle. And in so doing, he reveals that the heavenly bloodline is broader than any earthly ties that bind. To belong to this family is to be intimately bound up in the Word of God. It means being like the wonderful God revealed like the prophet Micah - one who does not harbor anger but rather delights in mercy, one who is faithful and compassionate, one who causes us to ask: “Who is there like you?”
Who is there like Jesus? The answer, he says, is us, his sisters and brothers. Intimately bound to Jesus, we are called to compassionately care for one another, to freely release anger and to eagerly welcome all who wish to encounter Jesus to come and join the family.
Like the Son, we children of God are called to lay out the welcome mat, For if home is where the heart is, we must make a home in all places and situations for the indwelling spirit of God - remembering always that all of life is a family affair.